What is a parenting coordinator in Alberta?

A parenting coordinator is a neutral professional, typically a lawyer or mental health professional with specialized training, who helps high-conflict separated parents resolve day-to-day parenting disputes. The parenting coordinator can make binding decisions on minor parenting issues without the parents needing to return to court.

When is parenting coordination appropriate?

Parenting coordination is most appropriate for parents who have a parenting order in place but continue to experience ongoing conflict over its implementation. It is particularly helpful when disputes are frequent, communication between parents has broken down, or repeated court applications are negatively affecting the children.

Are parenting coordinator decisions binding in Alberta?

Whether a parenting coordinator's decisions are binding depends on the terms of the agreement or court order appointing them. Many parenting coordination agreements give the coordinator the authority to make interim binding decisions on day-to-day parenting disputes, which can later be reviewed by the court if a party objects.

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Helping Parents Communicate Better and Reduce Conflict Post-Separation

Separation doesn’t end the need to communicate and make decisions together as parents, and for many, this can lead to ongoing conflict, miscommunication, or difficulty following the parenting plan.

Parenting coordination is a process which assists divorced or separated parents to co-parent on an ongoing basis, regardless of whether they have primary or shared parenting. Parenting coordination typically commences after parents have received a Parenting Order or have completed a separation agreement. Parents must mutually agree on the parenting coordinator, who is usually a family lawyer or a mental health professional with extensive training in parenting coordination, mediation and arbitration. Once the parenting coordinator has been chosen and an agreement signed, the parenting coordinator will address any immediate issues and help determine issues as they arise over time. The parenting coordinator will first attempt to mediate the issues, but if the parties are unable to reach a resolution, the parenting coordinator has the authority to arbitrate the issues and make a binding award.

Gary Kirk, Nigel Montoute, Wanda Dawson, and Stacey Haskins are experienced and trained mediators, arbitrators, and parenting coordinators. Wanda Dawson also has specialized training in Speaking to Children and Parents through Dr. Lorri Yasenik and Jonathan Graham, LLB (Sydney, Australia).

We are dedicated to supporting parents and families through difficult parenting challenges after separation or divorce and take every opportunity to develop and enhance our arbitration and mediation training and skills in this vital practice area.

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How a Parenting Coordinator Assists Parents

The parenting coordinator can assist in many ways, including:

Setting up Communication Protocols to Decrease Conflict

Co-parenting conflict often arises due to communication difficulties. Typical complaints include abusive emails, too many calls/emails, parents who do not respond to calls or emails, and communication through the children. If parents are unable to agree on communication protocols, a parenting coordinator can set detailed rules in arbitration, which will be binding.

Help Interpret Confusing Terms in the Order/Agreement

Often parents have trouble deciphering the meaning of certain clauses in their agreements/orders. A parenting coordinator can help parents determine the meaning or may make an arbitrated, binding decision on the interpretation if agreement cannot be reached.

Assist by Enforcing Terms in the Order/Agreement Which are Being Breached

Parents are often frustrated by breached parenting rules. A parenting coordinator is able to direct that there be consequences for such behaviour. Oftentimes, the consequence includes costs against a parent or extra make-up time.

Help Parents Make Difficult Decisions

Difficult decisions arise often and typically include choice of school, activity/sports choices, holiday/special occasion issues, health concerns, and pick up/drop off difficulties. As these issues arise, a parenting coordinator can quickly mediate them and, if necessary, issue a binding arbitrated decision.

Educate Parents to Co-Parent Without Conflict

The ultimate goal of a parenting coordinator is to assist parents in co-parenting without the need for a parenting coordinator, lawyers, or the courts.

WHY WORK WITH US

Why Trust Kirk Montoute Dawson LLP as Your Parenting Coordinator in Calgary

Dedicated to Supporting Calgary Families

At Kirk Montoute Dawson LLP, we have decades of experience supporting parents through high-conflict situations. Our work focuses on reducing tension, clarifying expectations, and ensuring parenting plans are followed in a way that prioritizes your child’s well-being.

Trusted Calgary Parenting Coordinators

We bring legal knowledge and conflict-resolution experience to our role as parenting coordinators. We work with parents to interpret and implement parenting agreements or court orders, helping to clarify expectations, mediate disagreements, and reduce the emotional strain on everyone involved.

Focused on Practical, Child-Centred Solutions

With Kirk Montoute Dawson LLP, you receive thoughtful, respectful support from professionals committed to long-term, workable solutions for your family. We guide you through emotionally charged issues to reduce conflict and create a more stable environment for your children.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Parenting coordination helps divorced or separated parents navigate the challenges of co-parenting. Typically, this process begins once parents have a parenting order in place or have finalized a separation agreement. Both parents must agree on the selection of a parenting coordinator, who is usually a legal or mental health professional with specialized training in parenting coordination, mediation, and arbitration.

After the parenting coordinator is appointed and an agreement is signed, they step in to support parents in managing ongoing parenting issues as they arise. Their first approach is to mediate disputes and guide parents toward practical, cooperative solutions. If an agreement cannot be reached, the parenting coordinator has the authority to make binding decisions to ensure that the best interests of the children remain the priority.

If the parenting coordination includes arbitration powers, the arbitrated decisions are binding under the Arbitration Act of Alberta. If desired, a parent may seek to have the court enter the award terms in a court order. The decisions are appealable to the Court of King’s Bench of Alberta pursuant to the terms of the Parenting Coordination Agreement and/or the Arbitration Act of Alberta.

If the parties resolve issues by consent, they may enter into a Consent Arbitration Award.

Once parents have a separation agreement or court order, they both decide upon a parenting coordinator. The parties should jointly contact their preferred parenting coordinator and ensure that they have adequate time in their schedule to take on the file.
A Parenting Coordination Agreement is signed with the parenting coordinator. Oftentimes, the parties will also obtain a Consent Order from the Court setting out their agreement to engage in parenting coordination. The Parenting Coordination Agreement will include terms giving the parenting coordinator jurisdiction under the Arbitration Act of Alberta to arbitrate issues which cannot be mediated.
Every parenting coordinator has their own process; typically, they will have individual meetings with both parents and read any required documents to provide a history of the family and their circumstances. Immediate issues will be canvased, and a plan will be made to address them. Usually, the parents attend a mediation session (in-office or via Zoom) to address these issues and establish other basic protocols. If needed, further discussion and mediation continue by meeting, telephone, or email.
If the issues cannot be resolved in mediation, the parenting coordinator will arbitrate the problematic issues using a process that is as cost and time-efficient as possible. The decision will be set out in a binding Arbitration Award, which may be put into a court order.
Should other issues arise during the term of the parenting coordination (2 years is recommended), the concerned parent may contact the parenting coordinator by phone or email. Typically, the parenting coordinator will attempt to mediate the dispute with meetings, phone calls or emails, whichever is most time and cost-effective given the concern. Once again, if the issue cannot be resolved with mediation, it will be put to arbitration and a binding decision will be made.
If issues arise which require other professional services, such as counselling for the children, this decision will be made by consensus or an arbitrated decision.

If the parties consent in the Parenting Coordination Agreement, the parenting coordinator may speak to the children if necessary. Involving children should always be done with great caution and only if the parenting coordinator has training in speaking/interviewing children. As another option, a parenting coordinator may arrange counselling for the children and consult with the children’s counsellor when necessary.

Parenting coordinators are often able to offer immediate attention to problems which arise. Proceeding to court usually takes significantly longer to obtain a resolution.
Parenting coordination is designed to be convenient and time-efficient for families. Much of the communication between the parenting coordinator and the parents is by email or telephone, rather than through the preparation and filing of formal court documents, letters, and/or meetings with legal counsel. The arbitration process is often tailored to be much less formal, depending on the issue.
The parenting coordinator becomes familiar with the family and their particular challenges and history. Understanding the family results in better-tailored solutions to their issues. It is rare, in the court system, for the same judge or justice to hear a case more than once.
It is typically much less costly to share the cost of a parenting coordinator than to pay two lawyers and court costs.
Most parenting coordinators have specialized training and a passion for mediation, arbitration, parenting coordination, interest-based dispute resolution and child psychology.
Parenting coordinators can work with third parties who may have helpful information, such as teachers, family and counsellors.

Yes, Gary Kirk, Nigel Montoute, and Wanda Dawson are experienced and trained mediators, arbitrators and parenting coordinators. Wanda Dawson also has specialized training in Speaking to Children and Parents through Dr. Lorri Yasenik and Jonathan Graham, LLB (Sydney, Australia). They are passionate about helping families through difficult parenting challenges upon separation/divorce and take every opportunity to develop and enhance their training and skills in this important area of practice.